What Do You Do If You’re Burned Out?

By Ted Wolfendale | May 28, 2019 

Back in 2003, Dr. Peter Vitaliano led a study involving more than 3,000 family caregivers. He chose men and women between the ages of 55 and 75. What he found was that the stress hormone levels in family caregivers increased by an average of 23 percent. Caregivers also had antibody responses that were 15 percent less. 

This study showed a correlation between caregiving and a weaker immune response and higher prevalence to high stress. High stress is risky because it can impact blood sugar and blood pressure readings. While that was more than a decade ago, the increase in Alzheimer’s disease and number of elderly adults in the nation has more spouses becoming caregivers than ever before. 

Caregivers are also more likely to focus on the care they provide and ignore their own needs. They often skip their own regular check-ups due to a lack of time. If they have a busy schedule aside from caregiving, they’re more likely to turn to fast food or takeout over a home-cooked meal. It’s simply easier to grab something quick than make it yourself.  That’s especially true in this time when you can get delivery from just about any restaurant you can think of through companies like Door Dash. 

 

 

Additional Studies Found Something Alarming 

 

An additional study found something that alarmed medical professionals. When a family caregiver provides care to someone with dementia, studies found that the stress levels and immune response didn’t rebound when the care ended. The impact on your health can last years. 

In this study, two doctors looked at caregivers during and after caring ended. There were no improvements in immune function years later. After three years, family caregivers had not recovered. This increases the risk of chronic health conditions like diabetes, high blood pressure, and susceptibility to viruses like colds and the flu. 

 

Knowing When You’re Burned Out 

Do you find yourself feeling apathetic? Do you just not care anymore? That’s one sign of caregiver burnout. You may feel sad, agitated, angry, moody, exhausted, or just unwell. If you’ve reached that point, it’s vital that you seek out help. Those are indicators that you’ve burned out and need help. 

You need help from two sources. First, talk to a doctor. Make sure that you don’t have additional health problems causing some of the symptoms you feel. It may benefit you to start seeing a therapist for depression. Second, arrange home care services. Let professional caregivers take over while you take a break from caregiving duties. 

 

Your parent may not love the idea of someone else helping them with activities of daily living. You need to make it clear that your mental and physical health is a problem right now. You need to focus on making yourself better. Your mom or dad should agree that your health is important. Call a home care agency to start arranging caregiver services immediately. 

 

If you or an aging loved one are considering Home care in Naples, FL, call the caring staff at Dial-a-Nurse today. Naples: (239) 434-8000. Ft. Myers: (239) 939-1228. 

 

Sources:
https://www.apa.org/research/action/caregiving 

 

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